What should one tell children about sexual abuse?

One should approach the subject directly and objectively giving appropriate and honest information without communicating unnecessary anxiety. This will make the child aware of sexual abuse and enable him to recognize sexual abuse and potential sexual abusers, when he encounters them. School children may be warned not to accept favors from strangers.

In adolescent years, a more frank discussion can take place. A trusting parent-child relationship encourages children to report unusual incidents with other persons, to their parents. In fact, public recognition in the area of child molestation is absolutely essential. Specific incidents, which have already occurred, should be reported and discussed in newspapers and on television. This will help in proper handling of sexual molesters.

Can the incidence of sex crimes be reduced by sex education?

Yes. Occasionally when sexual desire becomes intense, and a partner is not available, the only release left is masturbation. Rampant myths about masturbation (that it leads to impotence, homosexuality, tuberculosis etc.) often discourage individuals from indulging in it. In such circumstances, the intensity of sexual desire outweighs moral bindings and one may resort to sexual activity by force i.e. rape. This leads to an increase in sexual crimes. Rapes are also committed due to a common prevalent myth; that a man would be cured of venereal diseases if he has sexual intercourse with a virgin. Sex education, by eradicating these misconceptions, can orient an individual to direct his sexual impulses in a socially acceptable manner.